Her church is more important to her than you are ever will beplain and simple. Have you seen southpark episode on Mormons. It will definitely take patience to work through any of this with her but it sounds like she's a pretty awesome person. Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from wrong and act accordingly. I like to think that what you said really resonated with her. I miss my husband dearly. I read every page of the CES letter, and it's definitely convinced me this entire religion is fabricated, but I'm sure she wouldn't even read it much less consider its points seriously. It is the greatest sadness of her life.
I had a lot of things going on in my personal life as well, so maybe a relationship wouldn't have worked regardless. Being what you can even for 2 hours a week will help. That is why there are home teachers, friends, family members, neighborsвto provide priesthood blessings. With the amount of hours they must study and work they are exhausted a lot. I think your response is Bang on. There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness.
I do not have a problem with nurses. I don't know if living vicariously through him will be enough. If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. Notify me of new comments via email. Good luck with her, and good life to you. The brethren have taught that there is an ideal pattern for marriage. I haven't ever felt this way about anyone and yea that is a little unnerving in by itself but then add the not texting for several days and not seeing him that often and you cant help but wonder A few of my friends have flat out stopped talking to me because of him. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking.
All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying. Like, she thought that serving would remedy her of any doubts or testimony issues. Yes, anyone crazy enough to believe the story of gold plates should be able to rationalize a brown rock. We have a happy marriage. Not sure if you are, or not. Let her go right now then. Of course I have time for my SOs, of course I give of myself to them. If I had one thing to add, mixed race marriages are quite similar. It is my opinion I know my husband loves to come home and only eat, sleep and have wild sex.