My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. Maybe it won't be a big deal. For an example of what this means - say you get hurt in a car accident. She said we couldn't watch it because the lady who produced the doc was formerly a professor at BYU but has since left the church, so she wouldn't have anything good to say.
Things have been mostly good, but there are always challenges to deal with. I know a non-Mormon guy who married a Mormon woman and has kept her beautiful and desirable, by encouraging her religious involvement, even though he avoided Mormonism himself. If you can't deliver it in person, put in an envelope and mail it to me. I'm in the exact same pulling-out-my-hair situation that you are. Mormonism is fundamental to my religious beliefs and my personal sense of identity, and it is the community that I identify with most strongly. Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old. We learn sooooooo much from each other. The answer is, most emphatically, NO. Of course we are talking abt kids and marriage all the time. The man presides over everything.
In addition to your religious leaders, there are counselors who specialize in interfaith couples. My beliefs have changed several times in my life, but not those things, so my interfaith marriage has lasted 25 years. At the end of the second date I knew I needed him in my life. Their son grew up to become a temple president. Interestingly, my parents felt the same way about him. I am actually tired of the "excuse" that his work is so important or it's a calling. To others making this consideration, I would certainly suggest that you converse with your Father in Heaven about this important choice.
Am I wrong to hope for this. She encourages me to develop my skills and talents, and provides an example in several of those areas. So, we decide to take a "break" because there was so much tension and resentment in the relationship. The hospital had become, by his own admission, his "family", and he had virtually abandoned us to this demanding career. Long story short, everyone is dead on. For men, this will likely come after completing your mission trip, so in your early 20s at the earliest. All that matters to her is things are how they are because god wants them that way.