I am married to a DH and what helps me the most is knowing my whole life revolves around him and medicine always come first. With all of this said, I wish I would have found your blog earlier. It time with him I value most. An interfaith marriage can be done well or disastrously, or even only being made up as you go. I know from my own experience that God has the answers and that He speaks to those individuals who humbly seek Him. It is tempting for Mormon girls to become lazy because they have such a high standard compared to typical girls.
Mormonism is simply too unaccepting of mixed relationships. He gave me a very clear answer that this was right. Hi I am married to a doctor and I am alone most of the time. Should either of you sisters raise your children and wonder what faith will they choose. Make arrangements to send her to your cousins town and let your cousin know she will be visiting. In her obviously orthodox Mormon paradigm dad's a bishop, she went to BYU and on a missionunderstand that she believes her husband must be an orthodox Mormon and get married to her in the temple. Their marriage falls apart because they are both working way too many hours, and they lose their way in life. She was fine marrying in an LDS church instead of the temple, didn't want to convert me, and most importantly didn't try to change my beliefs or opinions.
Do you want to be married in the temple. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. This is something that's very important to her, and it's difficult to be married to someone who doesn't share the same values. There will be struggles in marriage and childrearing whether or not he is a member. I let her know I'd been reading on LDS. Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you.
If things get even more serious, try getting her to sign a pre-nup that neither she, nor her family will try to convert you. Did everything in my power to support him, whether it be financial, emotional, etc. I am so sorry for the pain you are going through. The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen. She might not even be living according to the moral standards of the Church. It doesn't get better. Is your mind made up and you want justifying support. I decided to sort of play along because she was amazing and I didn't believe some of the things she was telling me she actually believed.