He learned that I didn't pick up on ambiguity and that I took it personally when he didn't show consideration for me during the times that it was possible to. But the lies sting some people. I would go ahead and make boundaries with the conversation about kids and church, if that is your preference. My mom works in the medical profession, and it was always hard when she was on call or had to work late, but she definitely works hard. We've been going on dates and acting somewhat "couple-ish" for a few months but haven't assigned any labels to our relationship. But it would not change my love for that person. I feel as if my husband and I just live passed eachother. There will, in fact, still be churches besides our own. There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. It's alot to understand if not raised and taught in it specifically.
Am I that woman. As a man who married a non-Mormon woman, my story has a slightly different view point, but it comes down to essentially the same principles. Is it naive to think we could raise our children to fully participate in two different faiths. They therefore have a high standard to work toward.
Our daughter is 6. I can only say that I was that girl, 10 years ago. We are doing long distance at the moment and I was wondering if you have any advice.
That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me. They are at the service of others at the expense of their family. I started dating "A" right after he graduated med school and as he started his residency. I was lucky with my TBM. Lonliness is hard no matter the reason for it. He's currently doing emergency medicine and about to start residency. I am married to an ER doc. Plus I just quit my medical interpreting job last month.
