I married outside the church and have no regrets. You can and should share with her why you don't and never will believe in the Mormon church, and let her decide for herself, but be prepared to have that blow up in your face. You guys are looking into this wayyyyyyy too much.
We raised 2 wonderful children who are now happy and successful adults. My 16 year old daughter told her Bishop who made that comment, that she thought her dad was great just the way he was. And you seem like a good person. I know you got a zillion replies, and I have not read them. As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness. Also don't ask questions that are too intrusive, or those that you would not like to answer yourself. All that matters to her is things are how they are because god wants them that way. She went ahead a married a non member. And a happy ChristmaChannuKwanzaKah to everyone.
Someone already said it, but unless you are planning on converting, this is a dead end relationship. You might need to trade missionary lessons for research on her part, and we can suggest less scary resources. I can honestly say we have grown apart thru the years. That is a hard truth. My doctor husband also has a daughter from a previous marriage who he travels to see every other weekend. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual. A straight-laced, returned sister missionary, raised in the cult, and in family of similarly entrenched cult members, will not likely remain happy with a non-member.
We have a 2 year old, 4 year old girlsand our third baby is due on August 15, I would love to have tips on how to get through the stressful time of preparing for the MCAT. Your mids is still young. Plx express what yu think as you ladies are more experienced in this stuff.