So i try and be supportive with cute texts and never asking him to call me or do anything, but it is hard not to feel resentful. Somehow snow days when everyone else is off, I feel like my husband is the only one working I know there are many but it is very hard. So any support on how to deal with ocd behavior, heavy handed opinions, would be helpful. Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects.
They do exist and you deserve that. This is the rule rather than the exception. My wife chose me, but most people aren't so lucky. When I was a teen, my first boyfriend was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me. By exactly how much ESPN gets watched in the course of a man-day. He's a good man. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple.
His whole family joined after he did. Even if you are looking towards marriage, it can be better to hold off on more serious activities until a couple of dates to make sure you both feel the relationship is moving in the right direction. And here's a fabulous musical explanation of how the church came to franchise it's ecclesiastical services and doctrinal instruction in a process known as correlation.
Not every LDS person does, unfortunately. It will definitely take patience to work through any of this with her but it sounds like she's a pretty awesome person. I completely relate to all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains. Feel guilty I brought children into this loneliness They know NO different though. I think it's very helpful that I wasn't nearly as busy for most of our relationship thus farwe got engaged before I got absurdly busy and so it's not like we weren't extremely close.
