She will likely want you to convert to fix the family. Anyway, before you marry you should work out anything hypothetical that might come up in the future. I read every page of the CES letter, and it's definitely convinced me this entire religion is fabricated, but I'm sure she wouldn't even read it much less consider its points seriously. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear. Observe the suttle loony behavior of the family during thanksgiving. Narcissism, androgyny, obsession with pop cultureвthe problems with Western women go on and on. She's already past her prime in the Mormon dating market. Good Questions to Ask Someone. My husband is a doc in the UK so I moved 7, miles for love. For reference we're both in our mids.
LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next. It made me sad to think that the thing that was most important my life в my faith в was something that I could never fully share with my husband. Many blessings to you. And, as I was writing the reply, above, those thoughts went through my head. I get to experience the joys of his culture, which I never would have known otherwise. For reference we're both in our mids.
Mormons can be pretty crazy without it. I would never convert. It won't be easy with the lower salary but it will be better than the alternative.
He is not willing to cut back on hours or ever get off of his career track. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. Submit a new text post. He also travels an inordinate amount. I intend to spend some quality time in the temple, with my bishop, and with close family and friends as I think and pray my way through this decision, but I would also value your insights into this. Life is not perfect. You have been blessed with the equipment to make such decisions. And a YW leader feels soory for my daughter who is growing up in a home without the priesthood. My First and only Blind Date in Japan. I have finally learned to pray to change my heart, not his.