How do I help sustain and grow our communication under the circumstance. I think the LDS have been vastly over-simplifying that doctrine. Yes, it is bad. Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points. It sounds like you two haven't gotten exceptionally close and that it wouldn't be too hard on either of you to jump ship and move on. She really likes me, and if she could change one thing about me it would be my lack of religion. Do what feels right. I'll definitely talk with her about my concerns, and will be spending time with her family over the upcoming holidays so that will be a good chance to see how they treat me. I am now 40, I have been seeing this man now my husband for 17 years. I forgot to add, that if you marry and alow your children to be raised as Mormon, chances are you wont be able to be at their wedding because it will be in the temple.
What a fascinating response as always. I have read some of the comment here and would like to share my experience. Edited 1 time s. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. Real love just happens. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. I would suggest having a list of chores that need to be done, and anyone can check them off. Be thankful that you chose a man with passion and drive; realizing that his energies will not always focused on you. It started making me feel very nervous and apprehensive at the thought of having a family, and having all of his time be consumed by his work. In the interfaith marriages that work where one is LDS and the other is not religious, it only works out when the LDS partner is not fully a believer anymore.
I know what they really make, and what they really spend. Because if you can't live and let live, you both need to dive deep into this stuff and figure out what you believe and want in your life. Help answer questions Learn more.
The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing. He wants me to sit around while he does his stuff. If you want to date a Mormon guy or girl, then the best way to meet singles is by visiting the Church. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb.