I've read some of the articles linked to by mormonessays. And here's an excellent video on the importance of religious freedom. When we are together it is amazing he obviously has work that he takes care of when I am there but for the most part he tries his best to leave work at the office. A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment. I was scared to bring it up and make it seem like a demand or ultimatum, so I think I will approach him in the way you described.
What a fascinating response as always. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. How church discipline works.
Some day he hopes to make it to Romania and settle down. Controlling Behavior in Relationships. My current atheism bothers him a little but as long as we respect each other it's fine. Said he wanted those extra few minutes in the morning, but prefaced it by saying he knew it was selfish of him. Then be clear you will never convert. And here we are with our trivial problems. At least people of different races are aware of those differences, and are on alert to deal with them. And when you give all that you have to support someone else's dream, the money, cars, jewelry, etc mean little, unless you're a gold digger. I can be part of a church family whether my spouse goes or not.
Except his wife was and still is a witch. In truth if I had a chance to "do it all again" type of thing. I hope it all works out for you. Because I have a husband that is not a member I have a quasi like status in the ward. What can you expect.