You have to have very thick skin to stay in it. I don't think anyone here intended a dismissal of the girl as a human being by stating such. This sub is a great place to do that. That's all we're really saying. That my heavenly father hates my decision to marry my husband. Personally, I like to have my own identity and not be defined by my attachment to Dr. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife. When you are a man married to a female doctor.
I"am a man married to a female doctor with two daughters one is five years of age the other two and a half. I would not have wanted to be dismissed as crazy and unworthy of attention when I was still a member, because it wouldn't have been true. Mixed races, however, are NOT tied into opposing beliefs and mixed races don't try to "convert" each other. Send them to beautiful places and request photos of specific statues. If I knew any better going into this relationship I would have stopped. Your girlfriend might, or maybe IS, going through this. It's really somethi g to watch a person who is so self absorbed. Your probably thinking of a sect of the Mormons, I'm sure there is one like that.
The point is that there are way too many people talking in this thread as if they have some sort of psychic knowledge a stone in a hat, perhaps. And a happy ChristmaChannuKwanzaKah to everyone. Mormons follow the law of Chastity; they believe that the intimate act of lovemaking must be saved for after marriage. You guys have very thick skin. You would be able to force her to confront the facts without feeling threatened.
I have observed in relationships among friends and family inside and outside of the church that holding a temple recommend does not guarantee a strong, happy marriage. If you are not old enough to consider marriage, you should be careful about having a serious, exclusive relationship. I knew a guy who joined the Mormon church because he thought it would help him date a certain Mormon girl, a girl who refused to date non-Mormons.
