She is considered "an old maid" by Mormon standards, so she may be willing to marry you--hoping you will convert someday --but she will constantly be reminded that your marriage is inferior to the "Eternal Families" of sealed Mormons, and she will fear dying and never seeing her loved ones again. I grew up in Utah, attended BYU, and served a mission. Iam 24, my bf going to move to Troy NY for his master he ask me to move with him, I want to but Iam afraid we will never get married. Should we try to heed their counsel and marry in the Church.
I knew going into this it would be difficult, so I've braced myself, but I'd be lying if I didn't say there's a lot of disappointment that comes along with the relationship. Will you be open to me teaching my children my athiest point of view. It is funny that we are all anonymous. I am hopeful and do feel some healing.
Her brain has been wired from birth by said cult. I let her know it's not healthy to expect someone else to change - we can only control ourselves and not others. I am the wife of a general surgeon in his mid 50s. It has to do with their character. Now I look at his job and his schedule and his tiredness as a part of both of our lives, rather than something that is just his life that I have to deal with. Do you drink alcohol. In the Garden of Eden, Eve may have introduced sin into the world, but ultimately her actions worked out for good because it allowed all of us to be born and tested in this telestial state. Well, you know what you're not going to get into before marriage So fuck that relationship.
All I can think about is the fact that his schedule means that I will have to be the one to shoulder all the parenting and household responsibilities. She can only get sealed to him in a Mormon temple. I adored seeing him when I could planned good home made meals and always sent him off the next night with a special packed lunch. He learned that I didn't pick up on ambiguity and that I took it personally when he didn't show consideration for me during the times that it was possible to. Fellowship was worse and now that my doc has been an attending for 2 years, it is worse than it has ever been. She got engaged 3 months later. If she won't reason with your investigation of the church, nope on out and go on your merry way. She's too heavily invested in Mormonism for that. I recommend that talk. To prevent problems from developing in the marriage over in what faith the possible children should be raised.
