Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church. Even though we don't have kids I know the feeling of spending my Mrs Doctor life alone. The extent of other physical activity depends on what you both want from the relationship, though in general the Mormon Church frowns on sexual contact even beyond intercourse. It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church. Do you really love him, honey.
I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up. Be open and talk about your ideals. Look up all the threads of people who are dealing with their true believing spouses -- the guilt, the silence, the bad communication, the hostage-taking. The woman provides advice and counsel but doesn't preside. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other. Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair. However, from what I have seen he has all of the qualities I want from someone long-term.
MedPulse News App Stay on top of breaking news in your specialty and across medicine. You're only seeing what's on the surface of her Have enough people told you to run. Anyway, i know that this is not the experience of every surgical marriage but i guarantee most of them can relate in some way or another. We had lots of sex and fun.
But if your faith is a key part of your life, this is huge. The religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity. Sorry dude, she is in way to deep. The goal of dating at that age is to broaden your social circle and learn more about yourself. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from.