The "loneliness" is not an issue for me. I'll definitely talk with her about my concerns, and will be spending time with her family over the upcoming holidays so that will be a good chance to see how they treat me. But what I discovered surprised me. You insult my husband who is as faithful as they come and does everything he can to spend time with us and to help out.
Sadly, I'm not sure at this point. Let him respond before you say anything else. If we do, I will be back to share my experiences. That's the real issue. Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised. At the very least, I might have tried to persuade my husband to pursue a different career, if only a less-demanding area of medicine.
It is hard for the others to understand my situation, people must just think that you don't need to worry about anything, but this is not the case. My wife told me she does not want to know if the church is false, so I don't pressure her. I've read some of the articles linked to by mormonessays. Mormons follow the law of Chastity; they believe that the intimate act of lovemaking must be saved for after marriage. Would I like to have him by my side. I've learned that when I need attention, it's best to ask for it rather than wasting time acting sad or frustrated. If she says yes. Girls aren't socially required to be missionaries, unlike men. There's a reason so many Utahns are on anti depressants and anti anxiety meds.
The hardest thing is the feeling of being completely shut out. Much more, since I am having a hard time to conceive, all adds up to my frustrations. The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. I am literally too lazy to get up and get the computer. If you think your girlfriend's resistance to being exposed to anything critical of Mormonism sounds cult-like, you are right. I spent a lot of time on my knees and made several trips to the temple before I felt l could trust that what I knew I wanted to be promptings actually were.