You'll be richly rewarded. Also, I'm not involved with a doctor but I am an RN and spend quite a bit of time with them. This can make it harder for you two to do things together. It's very lonely right now but thank God it's only a few more days. We are now in Residency, have moved each year and started a new adventure each year since marriage. She hasn't submitted the paperwork yet but I have no doubt that she will do this eventually. Mormon girls are taught that they have a divine nature. I always feel like I am last. This insecurity is at the root of the princess syndrome. You have to be willing to share him with his education process.
This is something that's very important to her, and it's difficult to be married to someone who doesn't share the same values. I hope he wised up. This can be a good way to learn more about your personalities. Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting.
I think nothing really prepared either of us for fellowship though. Why shouldn't both people be responsible for making it work. Cuddling is not demanding.
When he's not at work, he's busy preparing or at conferences or studying, basically non existent. I recommend that talk. If it's the latter then you may need to be more direct and take initiative. I hate to be so undiplomatic, but it will always create friction in your life to have this level of religious difference. I wanted very much to make it work with us, and was willing to compromise in areas that I normally wouldn't. But I don't want to put any more demands on his time, which is why I thought maybe asking for quick phone call on his drive home might help. Hi, I am so glad to know that I am not alone. If you think you are, you might be.