Now he is home for dinner every night, takes a fraction of the calls, and doesn't work holidays. I think nothing really prepared either of us for fellowship though. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. A Mormon wife will also want to bring the kids along, and that should be discussed and decided before marriage and before kids. This is by design. Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting.
Ask questions, try to find out as much as you can. It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion. Seems he's always on call or on a totally different schedule than I. Also don't ask questions that are too intrusive, or those that you would not like to answer yourself. And generally those people seem to have great difficulty in breaking off the relationship, even though they are told that it is a dead-end situation that will cause them big trouble in the future. I'm so glad we waited until now instead of jumping into it right then, because I have learned a ton and the learning curve of being with a doctor is far more steep than it is to be with someone who is not married to their job.
Husband has affair with me, after telling me that he and his wife have grown apart, and we were together for five years. This came about after many hours and many days of prayer, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking with people I greatly trust my mom, especially. Always know the hospital and patients come first-it is just a given. I know my husband appreciates me looking into it because he knows I am doing it to gain an understanding into the culture he was raised in. There is rarely minute that goes by where I am not thinking about him in some way.
YOUR prayers are just as efficacious as a priesthood holders are. Your comment is SO spot on in my experience. That was literally over years ago. Hey Guys- I as well married a female Doc. Don't tiptoe around the issue. Anecdotes vs a much larger sample size. I get it; I just don't buy into it. I don't see anywhere in your post where there is a complete commitment. He is passionately loving - and he is "there" for me always.