This was hugely disappointing for him and created some very tense times. But I've met those 3 dates to engagement couples. When out on a date with a Mormon guy or girl, be very decent, courteous, and well-mannered. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair. Please start another thread and continue the conversation. Do you really want to wait two years to enjoy sex, fun, happiness, intimacy with someone. In fact, when I first met him, I had no idea he was even a full fledged doctor. Your crush might put a lampshade on her head and call it innocent fun.
If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity. I am willing to add his religious observances to our worship as a couple and as a family, but should I also be willing to give up some of my participation in my own faith в for example by attending the temple or Sunday services slightly less often in order to spend more time as an entire family. Maybe more convinced than you are. See if you can become involved only if it follows your strengths and desires. With me it's less about taking my time and more about the mental drain. I'm dating a lovely guy who is in his first year of medical residency. I am so glad I found this blog. If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. He was gone by 6: I was left to manage the house, the finances, the kids' schedules and what little time was left over for my own interests. Its was written in shorthand so its hard to read.
I used to be religious when I was a kid. After about 3 months of his occasional interjecting of facts See that 14 year old girl. But it is important to be ruthlessly honest with yourself about how you feel about it. And the longer you see her you won't be getting out of anything soon either. As such, it tends to attract the young and insecure. I met my wife at the age of She literally showed up at my apartment one night, wholly unexpected. I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards.
She still lives in her hometown though. That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship. I'm so sorry to hear this. She may never join the join the church. To not do residency and leave medicine behind. I think it's very helpful that I wasn't nearly as busy for most of our relationship thus farwe got engaged before I got absurdly busy and so it's not like we weren't extremely close. Lonely is an everyday thing. His specality is emergency medicine so I know that is extreamley competitive.